How to Thrive as a BBW Performer in Online Sex Work
Aug
This guide is designed to equip my fellow BBW girls with the knowledge, strategies, and mindset needed to succeed in the world of online sex work.
In recent years, the online sex work industry has witnessed a powerful transformation. It is breaking away from conventional beauty standards and embracing diversity and inclusivity.
BBW performers, in particular, are carving out their space in this evolving landscape, empowering themselves and captivating their audiences.
1: Building a Strong Foundation
This section is the #1 most important thing you need to know and understand. If you are like how I was when I first started, and you are struggling with confidence and self-esteem issues while you’re considering stepping into this industry, thinking that you probably will not get much attention or be successful simply because you’re a BBW then please keep reading💜
Validation, Self-Esteem and Empowerment
The truth is, most men absolutely love BBW’s. Societal norms made us believe that beauty was one size fits all but that is simply is not the case.
Your body type is not just accepted but genuinely admired by tons of men. Positive comments, appreciative messages, and the simple act of being noticed can work wonders for your self-esteem.
The experience of receiving male attention online extends beyond mere validation—it becomes a catalyst for empowerment. BBWs who embrace their bodies often inspire others to do the same.
What We Offer
We bring authenticity and relatability to the industry, resonating with audiences who seek genuine connections and realistic portrayals. The rise of BBW performers signals a broader shift in societal attitudes toward beauty, body image, and sexuality.
We are literally making history Ladies! It is happening right now! We are shattering stereotypes and rewriting narratives showing that confidence, empowerment and success are not limited by size or appearance. You are part of something big.
You Are Beautiful 💜
Building a strong foundation of self-confidence is essential and will build naturally as you go. The attention you receive fuels empowerment and self-confidence. You CAN be successful!
Embrace your body, your uniqueness, your rolls, and your worth as a BBW performer. I promise that you are seriously a Goddess walking amongst mere mortals. Own it!
Recognize that your authenticity and uniqueness are your greatest assets and can resonate deeply with your audience.
Defining Your Niche
Identify the niche that aligns with your personality, interests, and strengths. Choosing a niche you’re passionate about will help you connect with your audience more effectively. This could be anything from fetish content to role-playing or even educational content.
2: Selecting the Right Platforms
Research different online platforms and choose the ones that cater to your niche. Consider factors like audience demographics, payment options, and ease of use.
Also consider the type of content you’d like to create whether it’s audio, video or text-based you’re looking for. I opted for mostly text based as this is what I am most comfortable with. These are the top platforms I’ve found success with:
Sextpanther
Sextpanther is a fan site where people who already have a fan base can interact with their fans in one place. Sextpanther offers text, phone and video messaging. You can send locked content throughout the conversation, send mass messages, tips and also post locked content to your profile for anyone to purchase. You set your own prices. This site has a huge Femdom presence.
Note: Sextpanther has an approval requirement that you need to provide proof of a strong following on an adult industry-related social media account (personal accounts do not work) or a strong following on another adult site such as Onlyfans, Chaturbate, Manyvids etc.
If you already have the an adult industry related following you can use my link to apply:
Arousr
Arousr is heavily focused on mainly text based interactions. The longer you keep someone chatting, the more money you can make. You can do calls, video chats, send locked content via messaging as well as receive tips.
I’ve noticed this site has a good amount of guys looking for Femdom as well but still worthwhile for vanilla performers. I’ve been able to make about $600 per week just texting.
Phrendly
Phrendly is marketed as an online dating site but different as your interactions stay online. It’s owned by Niteflirt. Some men think its really a dating site so you need to be careful not to lead them on but you also want to keep them talking.
The bulk of men use it for sexting, phone sex or video. There is also the option for men to send “gifts” aka tips. Never ever send nudes for free because you make the most money by asking for gifts. If they don’t want to pay then they don’t get to see. Stand firm on this rule and know your worth.
Note: Phrendly only has an app for Android. iPhone users will need to use the browser site.
Manyvids
Manyvids is primarily a site to sell content. Manyvids also has subscription options, the ability to do a live broadcast, and a whole section where men can order custom videos with lots of extra options to charge for. I just started on here last month and fell into new a niche fetish after a custom that I made and have received new custom video orders for that niche following that one and its going well.
Compared to other fan pages, ManyVids has LOADS of built-in traffic to get you new subscribers
Payouts range between 60-80%, depending on the type of content.
ManyVids are model-owned, meaning they are usually ahead of the rest in enhancing their platform with new features.
3: Crafting Compelling Content
Quality Content Creation
Invest in creating professional and appealing content that highlights your confidence and uniqueness. Experiment with different types of content to find what resonates best with your audience.
If you’re just starting, a high-quality smartphone camera and a ring light works too. Amazon has some that are fairly cheap.
Angles
These are critical. There are a number of tips and tricks to hide areas you’d like to minimize. For example:
- How to hide a double chin: Position your camera a bit above your head, slightly to the side and look up into the camera.
- How to minimize a round belly: Wear dark colored bottoms and position the photo straight on.
- How to minimize a round belly (side angle): Stand with your back towards a full length mirror. Keeping your hips and butt in that position, turn back with your upper body and look back over your shoulder. This will put the main focus onto your butt and will give you a good starting point for you to tweak it as needed to catch your best angle.💜
Contouring
Taking the time to learn how to use makeup effectively can really up your game. Particularly, contouring.
You can make your face look as if it was chiseled by the Gods and create definition for cheekbones and make double chins look significantly smaller. There are lots of tutorials online for how to contour a chubby face or whatever face shape you have!
Don’t be afraid to experiment with various content types, from videos and photos to audio and written content. Cater to different preferences within your niche.
Engage with your audience creatively through live streaming, interactive chats, Q&A sessions, and behind-the-scenes content to foster a sense of intimacy.
4: Building Your Brand
Develop a strong and memorable brand identity, including a stage name, logo, or even a color scheme etc.
I make an intro to all of my videos with my stage name and use the same song in all my videos for the intro. I use Canva to create posts and use an app called Vivavideo to edit videos when I’m on my phone. Consistency builds recognition.
Cultivate a genuine connection with your audience. Respond to comments, answer questions, and make your followers feel valued.
Collaborate with other BBW performers within your niche to expand your reach and tap into new audiences. Networking can open doors to new opportunities. I highly recommend following some on Twitter. It is very empowering to be around other BBW’s succeeding in the same industry.
5: Monetization and Financial Success
Diversify Income Streams
Explore various monetization strategies, such as subscription-based models, pay-per-view content, custom requests, and merchandise sales.
Pricing Strategies
Research your niche and the industry to set competitive prices for your content and services. Never feel like you are somehow less because you’re e a BBW and set your prices too low. Know your worth and price accordingly. Regularly reassess your pricing based on market trends.
Exclusive Content
Offer exclusive content or perks to loyal fans who subscribe or support you. This fosters a sense of community and encourages ongoing support.
Maintain consistency in your content creation and engagement to retain your audience’s interest. Stay open to adapting your strategies based on feedback, changing trends, and industry shifts.
Social Media Presence and Promotion
Building a strong social media presence isn’t completely necessary if a site already has a good amount of internal traffic, however, it can still help by widening your reach and gaining new clients from your followers who will want to spend with you.
Twitter and Reddit are both (currently) adult work friendly platforms where you can promote. Use hashtags related to whatever you’re posting. I like to include #bbw in every post and choose hashtags that highlight my strengths shown in the photo.
Linktree is a service I use to put all of my links in one place so I can put it in my bio so people know where to find me and what I offer
6: Self-Care and Well-Being
Clearly define your boundaries and communicate them with your audience. Prioritize your mental, emotional and physical well-being.
Online sex work can be emotionally demanding. Establish self-care routines, seek therapy if needed, and engage in activities that rejuvenate you.
Pineapple Support provides 24/7 online, emotional support as well as free and subsidized professional therapy and advice to all performers and producers who have been active in the adult online industry within the past 6 months.
Pineapple Support: https://pineapplesupport.org/
Set a schedule that allows you to dedicate time to both your online sex work and personal life. Maintaining balance is crucial for long-term success.
Connect with other BBW performers and sex workers for guidance, advice, and emotional support.
Online communities can provide a safe space to share experiences and learn from one another. Again, Twitter is a great place to find fellow BBW performers.
7: Empowerment and Success
Thriving as a BBW performer in online sex work demands a combination of self-love, strategic planning, and resilience. By embracing your uniqueness, crafting compelling content, building a strong brand, nurturing a supportive community, and prioritizing self-care, you can not only survive but truly flourish and excel in this dynamic industry.
Your journey will contribute to a more inclusive and diverse online sex work landscape, fostering empowerment and self-acceptance for performers and audiences alike. Remember, your voice and presence are valuable, and your success is a testament to the power of authenticity and determination.
Sasha
I’m an east coast Canadian BBW and I have been working as an adult content creator and professional sexter for 3 years. I am a firm supporter of body positivity and the importance of taking care of mental health. I believe that every body is beautiful regardless of shape size, color etc.
