How to Convert Findom Subs to Drain Sessions

Hey Girl Bosses,

Today, we’re talking about how to convert subs to drain sessions.

This is a topic that a lot of people don’t really talk about in depth, but it’s an important one.

After all, if you want to make serious money, you need to be able to step your subs down the funnel from casual viewers to big spenders.

Let’s get into it!

Quick reminder: What’s a drain session?

A drain session is basically a 1-on-1 session where you get your sub to spend as much money as possible – and it’s super lucrative!

So how do we get our subs there?

💌 Findom Messaging Guide: From First Contact to Drain Session 💌

You need to start by building up anticipation in your subs. You need to be constantly teasing them on your public channels and making them want more.

Sassy captions are key here. Try something like…

  • “I know you’re dying to see me in this new outfit, but you’ll have to send me a message before I’ll show it to you.”

Or even more something more straight. Don’t overthink it.

  • “DM me if you’re rich enough.”

Sooner or later, you’ll start to get some DMs. Most of these guys are ABSOLUTE TIMEWASTERS.

Here are some examples of the messages you might receive:

  • “I love your body.”
  • “You’re so hot.”
  • “I can’t stop thinking about you.”

Yada yada yada.

Your job is to filter out the losers and keep talking the guys who will put their hand in their pocketfurther down the funnel and towards a drain session.

You need to make them feel like they need to spend more money in order to get what they want.

Repeat: You want to make your subs feel like they’re missing out on something if they don’t spend more money.

So once a potential findom sub has sent you a message, you can start to build up their anticipation and challenge them.

For example:

  • “I’m working on some new stuff that I think you’re going to lose you tiny mind over. Want to see it first?”
  • “I’d love to give you some extra attention, but it’s going to cost you. Interested?”

The key here is we want to see if the sub is actually ever going to pay for anything.

There’s a big difference between someone who just checks your free page, for example, and a PPV buyer/tribute sender

Actual buyers are invested in you, and have gotten over that biggest hurdle which is trusting you to deliver an experience by putting actual dollars at “risk”.

Okay, so now you’ve got a group of guys who are willing to pay for your stuff.

How do we move them from casual buyers to a full on drain session?

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(I hope it’s becoming clear now that this process is all about just moving your subs up a ladder of value, step by step.)

Here’s the hack: you MAKE THEM FEEL SPECIAL.

After you’ve spoken back and forth for a few messages, try something like:

  • “You’re one of my favorite subs. I’d love to get to know you more on a private drain. Are you interested?”
  • “You talk a big game. Show me how serious you are in a drain session or come back when you deserve me.”

Bang. Drain session scheduled. See you at 8PM (bring your credit card lol).

You can even get them to send you a tribute right then as a “deposit” just to make sure they don’t flake.

Keep in mind that these conversations can sometimes happen in an evening (rare), more likely a week, but sometimes up to a month to warm someone up as they see the value you bring.

Obviously, you have to tailor these messages a little to fit your style and aesthetic, but you get the idea. I’ve made the examples above pretty vanilla so you can play around.

You don’t have to be that aggressive or bratty – just let subs know that they need to pay for the privilege of interacting with you because you deserve it.

And the best way to do that authentically is to truly believe it yourself!

I hope this helps!

(And if you’re super beginner, be sure to check out my start guide on how to be a findom to get you started!)

Valentina xxx

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