How to Write JOI Scripts to Make More Money

JOI scripts are the perfect tool to help you feel more confident and in control.

By having a script to follow, you’ll know exactly what they need to do and say, reduce your nerves and anxiety, and deliver a better product you can charge more for!

I messed up my first few calls on NiteFlirt because I was so unsure of what to say so I just put the phone down, they could have been high-paying regular clients. 

Not only do I have experience writing my own JOI scripts whilst being in the industry, I also created a successful script store that has helped 1000s of women in the sex industry double their income. 

Here are some reasons to write and use JOI scripts: 

  • They provide structure and coherence to the conversation. 
  • With a script, you can guide the conversation with ease towards the client’s interests and sexual preferences. 
  • Scripts can ensure that each piece of content follows a similar format, making it easier to manage time and workload when bulk creating. 
  • A script can help you to avoid awkward silences or inappropriate comments that could make the client uncomfortable. 
  • You get a chance to focus on the client’s reactions and tailor their responses accordingly. 

How to Create a JOI Script 

Creating a script requires careful planning and attention to detail. The script should be tailored to the operator’s personality and the client’s preferences. It should also include a variety of scenarios and sexual fantasies to keep the conversation engaging. 

Popular scenarios and fantasies include: 

BDSM (Domination power play, CBT, sissy play, dungeon fantasies and small penis humiliation). 

Basic vanilla mutual masturbation. 

● Roleplay; this is typically everyday scenarios that become fantasies, so think about your own everyday life to get creative. 

● Threesomes, group sex, and gangbangs. 

When creating a script, phone sex operators should consider the following: 

● The client’s sexual preferences and interests

Separate each client into lists of what they are interested in, e.g submissives, sissies, dominants. 

● The operator’s personality and comfort level.

Play into your niche, if you are giving girlfriend experience because that’s your most comfortable play then stick to it! 

●  The tone of the conversation. How do you want to come across? Playful, romantic, kinky, sadistic? 

● The pacing of the conversation.

Allow your voice to get more confident and speed up as he’s about to finish, always slow down at the start of any content or calls. 

● The use of props and sound effects.

YouTube and PornHub are the best for squelching sounds, slapping ass sounds and more! You can get away with using these for audio based services or products you offer. 

Always be prepared to modify the script based on the client’s responses and feedback. A good script should be flexible enough to accommodate different scenarios and sexual preferences.

How to Get to Know a Client’s Sexual Preferences 

Here are some tips on how to get to know a client’s sexual preferences: 

1. Ask Questions – Don’t be afraid to ask your client about their sexual preferences. Ask them what turns them on, what fantasies they have, and what they enjoy sexually. This will give you a better understanding of what they are looking for and how you can provide it. 

2. Listen – When your client is talking, listen carefully to what they are saying. Pay attention to their tone of voice, the words they use, and their body language (if you’re on a video call). This can give you clues about their sexual preferences and what they find arousing.

3. Experiment – Try different things during your sessions to see what your client responds to. This could be different role-playing scenarios, different types of dirty talk, or different sexual acts. Make note of what they seem to enjoy the most.

Domination, and being submissive are always great places to start – most clients fall into one of these categories or they are just vanilla. 

4. Be Open-Minded – Remember that everyone has different sexual preferences and fantasies. Don’t judge your client for their desires or kinks. Instead, be open-minded and willing to explore new things. 

Once you understand your client preferences, you will then be able to create categories that they fit into so that you have somewhere to start.

Your First Draft

Writing JOI scripts can be a bit tricky, but with some practice, you can become a pro! Here are some tips to get you started: 

1. Know your audience: Before you start writing your JOI scripts, it’s important to know who your clients are. Are they male or female? What are their interests? What kind of language do they respond to? Understanding your audience will help you tailor your scripts to their specific needs and desires. 

2. Start with a script outline: Before you start writing your script, create an outline of the main points you want to cover. This will help you stay focused and ensure that you don’t miss any important details. 

3. Use descriptive language: JOI scripts are all about setting the scene and creating a vivid experience for your clients. Use descriptive language to paint a picture of the scenario and the actions you want them to take. 

4. Incorporate sensory details: In addition to descriptive language, incorporating sensory details can help make your JOI scripts even more immersive. Use words that appeal to the senses, such as touch, taste, and smell. 

5. Be confident and assertive: JOI scripts often require you to take on a dominant role. Be confident and assertive in your language, and don’t be afraid to give explicit instructions. 

6. Practice, practice, practice: The more you practice writing JOI scripts, the better you’ll get. Experiment with different scenarios and language styles to find what works best for you and your clients.

Where to Get Inspiration for JOI Scripts 

Erotic Literature 

Reading erotic literature can help you come up with fresh and exciting ideas for your JOI scripts. You can get inspiration from famous erotic novels or look for erotica online by using Google. Pay attention to the language used and the scenarios described to help you create a vivid picture in your caller’s mind.


Watching porn can also give you inspiration for your JOI scripts. You can draw ideas from the different scenarios, positions, and techniques used in adult films.

However, be careful not to copy everything you see, as your callers may be looking for a unique experience. 

Personal Experiences 

Your personal experiences can also inspire your JOI scripts. Think about your past sexual encounters and what you enjoyed about them. You can use these experiences to create scenarios that your callers can relate to. 

Customer Feedback 

Customer feedback can provide you with ideas for JOI scripts that your callers will enjoy. Listen to what your callers are saying during your sessions and take note of what works for them. You can use this feedback to tailor your scripts to their preferences and keep them coming back for more.

How to Structure JOI Scripts 

Here are some tips to help you structure your JOI scripts: 

1. Start with an introduction: Begin your script by introducing yourself and setting the tone for the call or content. Use a sexy, sultry tone to capture your clients attention and get them in the mood. 

2. Build anticipation: Always start by slowly, teasing your client with what’s to come. Use descriptive language to paint a vivid picture of the erotic scenario you’re about to create.

3. Give clear instructions: Once you’ve built up anticipation, it’s time to get down to business. Give clear, concise instructions for your client to follow. Be specific in your language and use action verbs to make your instructions more vivid. Make your client feel like they are with you. 

4. Keep it interesting: Vary your tone and pacing throughout the script to keep your client engaged. Use pauses, whispers, and moans to add excitement and anticipation.

5. End with a bang: Finish your script with a satisfying climax that leaves your caller feeling satisfied and fulfilled. Use your voice to guide your caller through the final moments of the call, building to a thrilling conclusion.



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